An individual with an individual description is influenced by other cluster of individuals. And this is the one line definition of a human life on earth. We humans are gifted with individual traits, characters, attributes and also a mixture of situations and surroundings. The surrounding is the people around us and situation is the reflection or causes or effects of the actions and duties of our surroundings. And thus manifestly, our situation is not determined by us but by the cluster of other individuals
If you feel like you are dumped in your current situation and blaming people for that then I can say for sure, certainly you are understanding things wrongly. We all are running towards something ever and ever and it’s like we get tired or disappointed when we were stopped by something. Things would happen unexpectedly in a way which we didn’t even think even for a nanosecond before. But it is acceptable. We are not the only one here and we are not the only person to do activities. There are more than billions of minds which is thinking about themselves and dealing their situation and each of their dealing may create a wave of reactions which in turn may also affect you at some point.
It is simple as of a chain reaction. Let’s consider this example. A milk shop owner’s duty is to sell all his stock. He does that perfectly and only one is left. My duty now is to fulfil my mom’s order to buy milk and I buy milk from that milk shop which is the only milk shop there. A person is in a situation to feed his baby. He rushes to the store but there is none. Thus due to the action of the milk shop owner and myself that man couldn’t accomplish his duty. This is called as situation and this is how the surroundings influences us.
We are meant to live in earth and thus we are supposed to tackle the situations which stops us. Sometimes we may be not in the right place where we should be meant to be, we may be in inappropriate places and surroundings. But there is nothing to yell like,” I hate my life and misfortunes are happening to me”. Most of us do these things and even I did so. I know and I can feel that I won’t be a software techie and I am passionate to be a writer but my surrounding is my B.Tech Information Technology class room and my situation is to not write articles but to concentrate in college studies.
It is inappropriate for me now, but this my situation. My duty is to fit in every situations and surroundings provided to me. My duty is to fulfil my duties of my current situation. While playing a video game you are so much interested to reach the last level. But you don’t like level 43, as it is in the way which you don’t like. Quitting the game because of level 43 is equivalent to quitting your desire. But understanding your situation and by trying to fit in it, you play level 43 and now you reach level 44. Literally you reach level 44 but really here you did more than that. You did your duty under your situation.
It may not be appropriate for you all the time and also not inappropriate for you all the time. In this world full of cluster of individual traits, try to tackle and handle situation. Whether you like it or not doesn’t matter. But sometimes it is usual that you have to climb that terrible tree to eat your favorite fruit. Think about it.
~ thank you.